- By Local Kebal Team
- Tuesday, May 23rd, 2017
Today was a rough day for me.. I had soooo much in my little head.. sooo many things in my mind piled up, all confused.. whole day I was a zombie.. absent minded… along with all these I had to say ‘bye’ to final year students.. it was my last class to them.. I was quite emotional (u know I always am!!). it was 2pm in the afternoon and I was damn hungry.. at the same time, my frnds had started to make fun of me in the watsapp group..i tried brushing those jokes aside… I tried even to convince them.. I tried to tell them how my day was & I needed their support.. but they went on n on!! It really got on my nerves & I just decided to leave the group and I did!!!
My patience level had certain limit & I really couldn’t take it anymore..one of my friend added me to group back. I left the group again with a message in bold letters.. “DO NOT ADD ME AGAIN”.. u know frends always do the opposite of wat they r told!! 😛 she added me again n sent a msg… “ machi.. we r frnds. Leaving a group will never ever change dat.. if u have a problem.. be with us.. & solve it..”
I realized how true it is… I scolded myself for doing such a silly thing. If I had some problem.. definitely leaving the group would not solve it.. I told this to my dad while talking to him.. and he said… “ THE PROBLEM WITH UR GENERATION IS THAT, U PEOPLE RUN AWAY FROM THE PROBLEMS.. IF UR MOBILE NUMBER IS NOT WORKING A COUPLE OF TIMES..U JUST DECIDE TO BUY A NEW ONE INSTEAD OF EVEN TRYING TO REPAIR IT.. IF U HAVE AN ISSUE WITH SOMEONE.. U JUST AVOID THEM.. IF U HAVE PROBLEM WITH UR PARTNER, U DECIDE SOOOO EASILY TO BREAKUP RATHER THAN SITTING AND SOLVING THE ISSUE TOGETHER.. NOTHING IS PERFECT.. NO ONE IS!! U NEED TO ACCEPT THAT.. LIVE WITH THAT.. BE HAPPY IN WATEVER U HAVE… RUNNING AWAY FROM PROBLEM WILL NOT SOLVE THE PROBLEM,, U NEED TO HAVE GUTS TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM.. U SHOULD LEARN HOW TO OVERCOME THE PROBLEM.. ಬಿದ್ದರೆ ಅವಮಾನವಿಲ್ಲ ಮುದ್ದು ರಂಗ..ಮತ್ತೆದ್ದು ನಿಲ್ಲದಿರೆ ಅವಮಾನ..”
After listening to my dad’s sweet lecture, I realized how foolish of me it was to leave the group and create nuisance.. I told sorry to my friends,, I made them understand my situation and they were like.. “ayyo.. don’t worry machi.. we are sorry too.. its all fine now..” I was amazed how a simple sorry made sooooo much of difference.. how simple was the solution to the problem !!